Episode 27

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Published on:

19th May 2026

A breakup, musical stops, and a dismissive complimentary close: Best (Theo Katzman)

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Key takeaways

  • Trist and Elaine review Theo Katzman’s clever 2020 song “Best,” which focuses on the emotional impact of a letter's complimentary close
  • Elaine and Trist discuss the usage of breaks as accents and vocal delay for a choral effect, delving into how production techniques can make vocals sound bigger and more expressive.
  • In the Mailbag segment, Trist and Elaine cover how musicians often balance several part-time gigs, and how professional groups maintain a pool of substitute performers to ensure coverage when conflicts arise

About us

Trist Curless is a Los Angeles-based vocalist, educator, and sound engineer. As a performer, Trist has toured worldwide as a co-founder of the pop-jazz vocal group m-pact and a 10 year member of the Grammy-award winning The Manhattan Transfer. In addition to these two vocal powerhouse groups, he’s also performed with Take 6, Bobby McFerrin, New York Voices, Vox Audio, Naturally 7, and The Swingle Singers. His latest venture, The LHR Project, is a new vocal group collective celebrating legendary jazz vocal group Lambert, Hendricks, and Ross.

As an audio engineer, Trist has toured nationally with several vocal groups and bands in a large variety of venues, working for Grammy award winners Pentatonix and Take 6, as well as prominent a cappella vocal groups Straight No Chaser, VoicePlay, and Accent.

Elaine Chao, M.Ed is a San Francisco Bay Area-based vocalist, multi-instrumentalist, vocal percussionist, and songwriter whose career spans a cappella, contemporary worship, and classical music. She has leveraged her training in classical and choral music over the course of her contemporary performance, including in orchestras for musical theatre and in sacred spaces. In addition to music, she also is a martial artist and published author. She currently leads a product management team at a major software company dedicated to creative expression. All statements in this podcast are her own and do not reflect the opinions of her employer.

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Elaine: Hey, Trist, what do we have this week?

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Trist: Well, Elaine, this week I think

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Trist: we have our first repeat

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Trist: performer.

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Trist: There may be a little bit of something here and there

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Trist: semantically, but our first repeat vocalist, at least that I

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Trist: can think of.

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Elaine: Huh!

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Elaine: Okay, so what do we have this week?

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Trist: Well, as you may remember, for those of you who have listened

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Trist: to, you know, every episode or even just the first one and for

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Trist: some reason are catching us again now, we featured Vulfpeck,

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Trist: one of my favorite bands in the first episode, and a member of

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Trist: the group, and the lead singer of that first track was a

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Trist: gentleman named Theo Katzman, who, like most of the folks in

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Trist: Vulfpeck, have their own projects, their own solo gigs.

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Trist: Theo has his own stuff, and I

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Trist: chose a song from one of his

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Trist: solo albums, and the song is

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Trist: called, "Best."

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Elaine: Okay. So with that, we are going to pause for just a moment.

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Elaine: But before we do, Trist, can you

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Elaine: remind us how we're listening to

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Trist: Well, we like to encourage you

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Trist: Thanks a lot.

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Elaine: All right.

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Elaine: So we're going to leave the links in the show notes.

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Elaine: Go ahead and pause.

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Elaine: We will be right back.

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Elaine: And we are back.

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Elaine: Ooh, that one was really funny.

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Elaine: It was really fun to listen

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Trist: Yeah.

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Elaine: to

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Trist: It's

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Elaine: this

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Trist: clever.

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Elaine: one.

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Trist: Right?

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Elaine: It is incredibly clever.

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Elaine: I think clever is a really good word to describe it.

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Elaine: It had so much going for it.

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Elaine: And it's so contemporary.

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Elaine: I'm wondering actually whether

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Elaine: it's going to feel dated and

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Elaine: another fifteen or twenty years,

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Elaine: but

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Trist: Hm.

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Elaine: I don't know, maybe it won't.

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Trist: That's true.

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Trist: Being in the writing of letters.

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Trist: I suppose sending an email is still writing a letter and you

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Trist: still have salutations in which you need to decide which you're

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Trist: going to use.

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Trist: So I guess in some ways maybe.

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Trist: Yeah, I don't know.

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Trist: I think it'll hang around for a while.

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Elaine: All right.

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Elaine: So tell me a little bit about

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Elaine: why you chose this song out of

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Elaine: all of the things that he's done?

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Trist: That's really the primary thing.

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Trist: I mean, I like his voice, his

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Trist: musicianship is always

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Trist: excellent.

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Trist: He's a good songwriter, but I

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Trist: just liked the cleverness of

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Trist: this.

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Trist: I'm a sucker for that.

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Trist: And, musically nice form, cool

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Trist: chords, he doesn't stay super

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Trist: basic yet very singable and

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Trist: catchy.

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Trist: A lot of cool chords, has a nice bridge.

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Trist: We love a nice bridge here on The Musician's Loupe.

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Trist: Um, yeah, the whole package is just there, very slick, cool

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Trist: chords in the right places without having too many of them,

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Trist: just a very clever lyric.

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Trist: I like odd topics.

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Trist: I wouldn't have thought to write a song about that particular

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Trist: topic, but that's why I like it.

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Elaine: All right.

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Elaine: So I want to suggest that we finish with the lyrics because

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Elaine: we can talk about them forever.

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Trist: Okay.

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Elaine: And let's start with instrumentation.

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Elaine: One of the things that I really loved about it was, it sounded

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Elaine: very simple, very jazzy.

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Elaine: And yet the more you listen to

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Elaine: it, the more things popped out

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Elaine: in terms of the instruments that

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Elaine: he chose.

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Elaine: Certainly

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Trist: Right.

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Elaine: starting out piano forward,

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Elaine: there was this little rubato

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Elaine: section leading into something

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Elaine: that had a lot more rhythm to

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Elaine: it.

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Elaine: And so I'm wondering what you heard out of that orchestration

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Elaine: as you were listening to it.

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Trist: I like the different textures that outline the sections.

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Trist: The verses are pretty sparse.

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Trist: And again, as we've talked about many times, the textures really

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Trist: help because getting the basis of what the song is about, the

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Trist: lyric is pretty darn important that it really comes through.

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Trist: So less stuff in the way.

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Trist: There's enough rhythmic and harmonic stuff, yet still plenty

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Trist: of space that the focus is what the lyrics are, so you can get

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Trist: hooked into what this is about.

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Trist: And then even as the textures go, you're already clued in to

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Trist: what the lyric is.

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Trist: So you hopefully stick there and

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Trist: the lyrics never get kind of

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Trist: buried.

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Trist: So I love that.

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Elaine: One thing that I did notice was that nothing felt like it

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Elaine: attacked too much.

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Elaine: Sometimes

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: with rhythm and especially with snares, you'll find snares that

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Elaine: are mixed really high.

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Elaine: This one, the snare didn't have as much of a sizzle on it.

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Elaine: It was there, but it was tuned very low and it didn't have as

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Elaine: much of the sizzle that was picked up from it.

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Elaine: So I just felt like the drums were very subtle.

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Elaine: They held the beat, but they weren't really overpowering.

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Elaine: And so the way they were mixed was really pulled back a lot.

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Trist: That's a very, typical sound for Vulfpeck, too, in the band.

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Trist: So it kind of translates to some of the other things.

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Trist: You're not going to get a lot of flash from a lot of that stuff.

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Trist: Everything is super basic.

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Trist: When you see the recordings, they'll have videos of while

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Trist: they recorded, it's like super pared down drum kit without a

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Trist: lot of extras.

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Trist: Anyway, they just reminded me of that.

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Elaine: To follow up on that, I also

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Elaine: heard some vocals in the

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Elaine: background that were very

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Elaine: textural.

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Elaine: And I know that we've talked

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Elaine: about this before in the podcast

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Elaine: about how background vocals have

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Elaine: really filled in some of the

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Elaine: spaces where some of the

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Elaine: instruments haven't.

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Elaine: Can you tell me a little bit more about that?

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Trist: Wow. You know, now that you mention them, like so focused on

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Trist: the groove, the musicality, and the main lyric of the main line,

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Trist: I'm trying to even hear where in my brain, where the background

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Trist: vocals are, I suppose on the pre-chorus, there's maybe some.

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Trist: Yeah.

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Trist: Wow.

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Trist: A great job of just focusing on

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Trist: the lyric on the recording

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Trist: because I can't even remember

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Trist: where there are background

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Trist: vocals.

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Elaine: Well, I will say that I heard them and they were very subtle.

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Elaine: They didn't stick out.

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Elaine: And I think part of it is the intonation, part of it is just

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Elaine: where it showed up.

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Elaine: And like you said, a large part of it is just the fact that we

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Elaine: are so focused on the lyrics because they're so clever.

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Elaine: So I guess the last thing that I

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Elaine: wanted to comment about the song

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Elaine: itself was just the use of

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Elaine: silence and

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: the use of break, because this

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Elaine: was one where we just had a

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Elaine: repeated use of a break as an

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Elaine: accent.

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Elaine: It just like stopped.

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Elaine: And it was almost like the punch.

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Elaine: It was almost like an exclamation point every time

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Elaine: that he used that silence.

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Elaine: Like the entire thing broke for just a like a beat, basically.

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Elaine: And then went back in.

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Elaine: And

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Trist: Yep.

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Elaine: I really appreciated that.

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Elaine: That was really, really nice.

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Trist: I'm always a fan of a break, a stop time, especially anything

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Trist: groovy and funky.

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Trist: That's the thing that makes it

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Trist: groovy and funky is the space

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Trist: between the notes, sometimes

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Trist: literally between when you're

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Trist: playing, but then accentuated by

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Trist: a break.

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Trist: All my favorite groove music.

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Trist: You know how big of a Prince fan I am, and like, got that from

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Trist: James Brown etc. like the stop at the funky section.

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Trist: So that amount of space being

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Trist: just right is what feels so

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Trist: good.

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Trist: So yeah, he nails that.

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Elaine: Yeah. The thing that I did notice was that his voice, it

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Elaine: sounded like there was a tiny little bit of a delay on it.

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Elaine: And part of it was like, oh, it sounds doubled.

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Elaine: But then the more I listened to

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Elaine: it, I was like, oh, it doesn't

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Elaine: sound doubled.

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Elaine: Actually, it just sounds like they have a delay in the voice.

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: Which I think was exactly what they did on the Vulfpeck track

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Elaine: that we listened

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Trist: Probably.

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Elaine: to at the very beginning.

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Elaine: Right.

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Trist: Yeah, probably.

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Elaine: Okay. Can you talk a little bit

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Elaine: about why people use delay for

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Elaine: that?

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Elaine: what effect is it that people are going for when they're using

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Elaine: the tiny bit of delay?

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Trist: Using delay can achieve different things.

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Trist: Within a bigger texture, when

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Trist: there's a lot of stuff going on

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Trist: to help fill out the sound, you

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Trist: can use a little bit longer

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Trist: delay that happens quietly that

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Trist: you're not really aware of, of,

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Trist: of, of.

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Trist: So if all of those get quieter, it just is extra sound that you

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Trist: might not necessarily hear it.

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Trist: Now sometimes there's an effect effect effect effect effect.

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Trist: Like is purpose.

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Trist: Like very much you want people to hear it repeated, repeated,

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Trist: repeated like that.

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Trist: But a lot of times delay – and

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Trist: if it's timed out like that in

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Trist: time, it's often just a part of

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Trist: the rhythm.

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Trist: But sometimes, it's very slight.

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Trist: So part of the effect that you get when you double track, when

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Trist: you do two tracks of a lead, it's almost impossible to be

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Trist: exactly the same as what you sang the first time, so it makes

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Trist: it sound a little bigger.

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Trist: So you can achieve a similar effect without having to sing

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Trist: the whole vocal.

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Trist: If you put the delay just milliseconds long instead of

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Trist: rhythmically where it's audible.

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Trist: So then it gives the illusion that there's another voice there

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Trist: that happens just after.

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Trist: So a lot of times it's just for

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Trist: the effect in trying to make it

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Trist: sound bigger.

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Trist: It's just another tool in the toolbox that might be a sound

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Trist: that you like.

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Elaine: It triggers that choral effect, right?

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Elaine: That we

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Trist: Yes,

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Elaine: listen for

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Trist: indeed.

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Elaine: that multiple voice.

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Elaine: Yeah.

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Trist: So a lot of times that's how

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Trist: chorusing will happen is you'll

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Trist: put two or three delays and

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Trist: you'll have them at different

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Trist: And you'll also maybe move the

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Trist: pitch a bit like change the

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Trist: pitch of one, five or six cents,

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Trist: one direction, two or three

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Trist: cents in another direction,

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Trist: because that kind of replicates

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Trist: a group of people trying to sing

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Trist: the exact same thing, but then

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Trist: being just very, very slightly

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Trist: off.

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Trist: It's the same thing.

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Trist: You can achieve by using a delay.

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Elaine: It was interesting that you

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Elaine: mentioned that, because I was

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Elaine: watching a reel on Instagram of

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Elaine: these two singers who were

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Elaine: trying to do this choral effect,

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Elaine: and they sang the same line over

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Elaine: and over again, but as different

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Elaine: people.

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: And so they actually had the

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Elaine: intonation in different places

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Elaine: because they

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: were like, here's the campy version,

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Trist: Right.

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Elaine: here's the like chorally trained version,

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: here is the pop version.

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Elaine: They sang all of these together

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Elaine: and then mixed them all together

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Elaine: for that

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: choral sound, just overdubbing themselves in this way to sound

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Elaine: more like a crowd singing.

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Elaine: And so

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Trist: Right.

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Elaine: funny that you were mentioning

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Elaine: that, because I was just

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Elaine: remembering that video that they

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Elaine: made to show how they actually

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Elaine: did this.

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Trist: And then using that technique a lot of times, and they may have

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Trist: done this too, but you'll even stand different distances from

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Trist: the microphone that you use because that replicates if you

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Trist: had twenty people.

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Trist: Of course, there's somebody that's three or four people

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Trist: behind you, two or three feet farther away from the microphone

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Trist: than those in front.

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Trist: So you'll stand in different places in the room if you're

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Trist: trying to replicate a group.

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Elaine: Yeah, I love this.

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Elaine: Okay, we are finally going to get into the lyrics.

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Elaine: I

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Trist: Okay.

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Elaine: know you want to talk about

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Trist: Yes.

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Elaine: them.

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Trist: No, I know you want to talk about

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Elaine: I,

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Trist: them.

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Elaine: yeah, I definitely want to talk about them because I love the

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Elaine: lyrics of this song.

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Elaine: And I think a big part of it is that even in the midst of the

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Elaine: cleverness, even in the midst of the rant, this person's

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Elaine: situation is revealed over the course of the

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Trist: So.

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Elaine: song.

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Elaine: Like we don't find out very much about it until the chorus.

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Elaine: So we have a full 30s of this guy singing about this thing

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Elaine: that we're like, oh, okay, it's building up this tension.

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Elaine: Then we find out in the chorus that he is really upset because

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Elaine: all of the days that they spend together, this is a non-trivial

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Elaine: amount of time that these people have spent together.

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Elaine: And he's feeling upset because

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Elaine: this person signed off a letter

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Elaine: or an email or whatever it is

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Elaine: with "best."

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Elaine: And,

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Trist: Right.

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Elaine: um, and then we find out more later in the bridge.

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Elaine: And I know that you and I have talked about bridges before and

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Elaine: how bridges are really the moment of truth.

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Elaine: You find out so much more.

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Elaine: This is

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Trist: This

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Elaine: exactly

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Trist: is exactly

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Elaine: when

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Trist: when

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Elaine: the crux

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Trist: the.

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Elaine: of the song is, is often in the bridge.

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Elaine: We don't find out until the

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Elaine: verse right after the bridge

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Elaine: exactly the nature of the

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Elaine: relationship.

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Elaine: And so in the bridge, it is very

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Elaine: clever because it talks about

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Elaine: all of these different things

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Elaine: that this person could have

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Elaine: written instead.

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Elaine: And

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Trist: Right.

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Elaine: then in the verse right after that, it talks about the sexual

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Elaine: relationship that they had.

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Elaine: And this intimacy that they shared.

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Elaine: And you find out the depth of his hurt.

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Elaine: And I think a big part of it is that you realize at that point

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Elaine: in time that it wasn't just because he felt dismissed, it

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Elaine: was because he felt betrayed, because all of this time that

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Elaine: they had spent together, was in some ways almost dismissed

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Elaine: because of the word "best."

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Elaine: And so I just thought that was

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Elaine: really clever, the way that he

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Elaine: brought us along on this

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Elaine: journey.

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Elaine: And we don't find out until near the end of the song exactly why

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Elaine: he is so upset.

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Trist: I love that.

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Trist: I dig it also how we can read into something like that.

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Trist: Like maybe it was intentional,

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Trist: maybe not, maybe whatever letter

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Trist: that was written to him tried to

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Trist: be more heartfelt, tried to

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Trist: connect, whatever.

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Trist: But of all the things that were

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Trist: said, the fact that just the

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Trist: salutation is the thing that

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Trist: seemed like it was

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Trist: representative of the feelings,

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Trist: like who knows what was in the

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Trist: letter?

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Trist: The whole letter might have been amazingly well written and

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Trist: heartfelt and talked to him about how great everything was.

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Trist: It's too bad it had to end.

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Trist: But he gets stuck on the fact that she chose "best" instead

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Elaine: Okay,

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Trist: of all the other options.

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Elaine: so here's where my grammar nerd comes out.

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Elaine: So I

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: had to look up like, what do you call that last thing that you

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Elaine: write before you write your name in a letter?

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Elaine: And apparently

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: it's called the complimentary close.

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Trist: Oh.

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Elaine: And so a salutation is like, dear, so and so, right.

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Elaine: And like the complimentary because I'd forgotten it, I was

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Elaine: just like, what do you call that

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Trist: Oh.

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Elaine: thing?

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Elaine: What

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Trist: Was

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Elaine: do you

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Trist: I

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Elaine: call

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Trist: was

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Elaine: sincerely?

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Trist: I misusing that?

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Trist: Was I calling

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Elaine: Uh,

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Trist: it the

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Elaine: yeah.

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Trist: greedy?

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Elaine: So, um,

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Trist: I thought

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Elaine: I

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Trist: the greetings

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Elaine: found,

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Trist: was okay.

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Elaine: yeah, so I looked this up right before we recorded the podcast

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Elaine: and there was an amazing blog post that I found on Grammarly

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Elaine: that we're going to link into the show notes.

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Elaine: And it's basically like writing tips.

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Elaine: How to end a letter.

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Elaine: And I'm going to read a couple

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Elaine: of segments out of this blog

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Elaine: post because I felt like it

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Elaine: applied exactly to this letter

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Elaine: and maybe like adds a couple

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Elaine: more nails to this coffin,

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Elaine: right?

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: So here's the first quote.

Speaker:

Elaine: "Your letter closing is the last

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Elaine: thing your recipient will read,

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Elaine: which is why it's essential to

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Elaine: end a formal letter or email

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Elaine: appropriately.

Speaker:

Elaine: How you end your letter can dictate how your recipient

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Elaine: receives your message and the overall impression you leave.

Speaker:

Elaine: It can also set the tone for

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Elaine: future communications, build

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Elaine: rapport with the recipient, or

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Elaine: strengthen an existing

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Elaine: relationship."

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Elaine: And I was like, ooh, "best."

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Elaine: Okay.

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Elaine: So the second one is "How you

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Elaine: end your letter should reflect

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Elaine: your relationship with the

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Elaine: recipient.

Speaker:

Elaine: If your letter is addressed to a

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Elaine: manager or supervisor, your

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Elaine: closing should convey respect or

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Elaine: deference."

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Elaine: And I was like, ooh, "best."

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Elaine: That is a sign off there, right?

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Elaine: So the third quote is "Your

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Elaine: closing should match your

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Elaine: overall purpose.

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Elaine: The reason you're sending the letter.

Speaker:

Elaine: If you're writing specifically to request something or to

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Elaine: express gratitude, your letter should close with an

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Elaine: appreciative sign off."

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Elaine: I'm like, oh, "best," right?

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Elaine: And so like all three of these, as I was reading this with the

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Elaine: context of this song, I was like, oh, the word "best" has a

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Elaine: lot of connotation to it.

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Trist: That's amazing.

Speaker:

Trist: Yeah, I love it.

Speaker:

Trist: Again, it's so clever.

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Trist: Without saying it's like you could have said anything else,

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Trist: you could have said all of these other things and it would have

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Trist: been better than "best."

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Elaine: In the chorus itself, he does talk about some of the things

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Elaine: that he would have preferred.

Speaker:

Elaine: You could have told me to get lost.

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Elaine: You

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Trist: Sure,

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Elaine: could have told me to just like, go away.

Speaker:

Trist: sure.

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Elaine: Right.

Speaker:

Elaine: And none of that really happened.

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Elaine: The fact that the song is fixated on this word is on the

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Elaine: one hand, so hilarious.

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Elaine: And on the other hand, it's also very understandable.

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Elaine: And I think part of the tragedy of the song is that he is

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Elaine: sitting here grieving not only the relationship, but he's also

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Elaine: grieving the way that he was treated at the very end.

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Elaine: And

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Trist: Yeah.

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Elaine: so to your point, I think the

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Elaine: letter could have been very well

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Elaine: constructed, could have been

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Elaine: very helpful, could have been

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Elaine: very complimentary.

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Elaine: But it did end with something that he found very personally

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: offensive.

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Elaine: And so, yeah, the rant is on the one hand, so funny and at the

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Elaine: same time just heartbreaking.

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Trist: Such a good one.

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Trist: Clever.

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Trist: Very good writer.

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Trist: Lots of his songs are very well done.

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Trist: But I liked this one.

Speaker:

Elaine: Okay, well, any last things to

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Elaine: say about this song before we

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Elaine: move on?

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Trist: Oh, I think that's it.

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Trist: Just a real good one.

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Trist: You got to pay attention to all the lyrics on.

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Trist: Love it.

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Elaine: Well, thanks for bringing this to us.

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Trist: Of course.

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Elaine: So we're going to move along to our next segment, which is.

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Trist: Mailbag.

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Elaine: That's right. The Mailbag.

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Elaine: And you can reach us by emailing us at themusiciansloupe, that's

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Elaine: L o u p e at gmail dot com.

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Elaine: Or by sending us a message on

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Elaine: either Threads or on Instagram

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Elaine: @themusiciansloupe.

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Trist: Yes, that would be the place to let us know your thoughts about

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Trist: this week's song, or any of the other stuff from Theo's catalog.

Speaker:

Trist: Or the way that you like to end your letter when you really want

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Trist: to prove a point, you can let us know any of those things.

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Trist: Also love for you to check out the playlists.

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Trist: All of the platforms that we are on have a section where you can

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Trist: check out the playlist of all of the songs we have covered.

Speaker:

Trist: So send that out to friends, family, heck, send it to people

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Trist: you don't even like.

Speaker:

Trist: Spread the word.

Speaker:

Trist: Let them know that we're here,

Speaker:

Trist: and there may be some songs on

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Trist: there that they can just enjoy

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Trist: by themselves.

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Trist: But if they hear the playlist and there's a song that stands

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Trist: out to them, they'd love to know more about it.

Speaker:

Trist: You can point them to us.

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Elaine: All right, so this week's Mailbag comes from Threads.

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Elaine: It is a post from Casey Shelnutt music from January of 2026.

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Elaine: And she writes fact colon full time musician doesn't mean

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Elaine: you're on the road gigging 24 / 7 or have a full time position

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Elaine: with an orchestra or signed with a record label.

Speaker:

Elaine: It can also mean colon choir

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Elaine: accompanist, private music

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Elaine: teacher, studio recording

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Elaine: artist, audio engineer,

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Elaine: composer, church musician,

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Elaine: songwriter, wedding musician,

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Elaine: pit musician, orchestra sub,

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Elaine: arranger, ensemble director,

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Elaine: band director.

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Elaine: What else did I miss?

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Trist: Yeah, this is true of really most arts careers.

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Trist: Living in Los Angeles, there are a lot of us, friends of mine, me

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Trist: included, who consider ourselves full time musicians.

Speaker:

Trist: But yeah, I don't have just one job.

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Trist: There are varied things.

Speaker:

Trist: Some have one full time musician type job that kind of really

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Trist: does what they need to do, but they seek out other things on

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Trist: their own to fill the coffers and fill the creativity.

Speaker:

Trist: And sometimes they don't have that perfect.

Speaker:

Trist: They have several small part

Speaker:

Trist: time musician jobs that makes

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Trist: what they do and gets their

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Trist: bills paid.

Speaker:

Trist: So yeah, we can relate with that.

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Trist: I have a lot of friends that do

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Trist: all of those things that she

Speaker:

Trist: listed.

Speaker:

Trist: I'm much in that mode myself.

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Trist: Not on the road all the time, but I am a bit.

Speaker:

Trist: And then sometimes I'm home and you're just piecing it together.

Speaker:

Trist: In some ways it can get a little tiring.

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Trist: It'd be great if you just had one thing, but in a lot of ways

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Trist: I enjoy that.

Speaker:

Trist: It gives you a lot of variety.

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Elaine: I feel like there is something about that.

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Elaine: Certainly there are people who I know who have one primary gig.

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Elaine: Whether it is a group that they belong to or they're a full time

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Elaine: music teacher or they're just doing private lessons.

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Elaine: But I think for the people who

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Elaine: are gigging, there are a lot of

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Elaine: people who you and I both know

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Elaine: in common.

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Elaine: And I feel like the average is

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Elaine: somewhere between five and ten,

Speaker:

Elaine: where it's like you have five to

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Elaine: ten things going at every given

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Elaine: point in time when we find this

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Elaine: out because it's like, oh yeah,

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Elaine: today I'm singing with this

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Elaine: group.

Speaker:

Elaine: Today I'm singing with this group.

Speaker:

Elaine: I'm at a wedding this time.

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Elaine: I'm playing a bar tonight.

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Elaine: And so I think that it is something for us to think about.

Speaker:

Elaine: Like, how do you patch together?

Speaker:

Elaine: How do you I don't even say patch together.

Speaker:

Elaine: How do you construct a career

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Elaine: out of all of these ongoing but

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Elaine: infrequent gigs?

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Elaine: And especially

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Trist: Right?

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Elaine: if you're a local musician

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Elaine: versus a touring musician, I

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Elaine: feel like more of my local

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Elaine: musicians are doing that kind of

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Elaine: thing.

Speaker:

Elaine: Like they have a church gig.

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Elaine: They have a regular thing that they're doing at a club.

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Elaine: They have three different bands that they're playing with, like

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Elaine: that kind of thing I feel like is more standard than maybe most

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Elaine: people would think.

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Trist: And that really goes with any kind of gig work.

Speaker:

Trist: Other arts, actors, musicians, other artists, other mediums,

Speaker:

Trist: lots of that, you've got some work for hire and then stuff you

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Trist: do on your own.

Speaker:

Trist: Obviously lots of the stereotype

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Trist: is actors and musicians being

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Trist: wait staff, so sometimes those

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Trist: extra jobs that aren't really

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Trist: even directly related to your

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Trist: profession.

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Trist: I guess at least the way that

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Trist: she's putting it, it's cool that

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Trist: you have to do all of those

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Trist: things to get it to be a full

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Trist: time musician, but at least all

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Trist: of those are music that she

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Trist: listed.

Speaker:

Trist: She didn't list all the other things that that musicians can

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Trist: end up doing to pay the rent that aren't music.

Speaker:

Trist: I think of it that way rather than, oh man, I have to piece

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Trist: together all of these things to make it work.

Speaker:

Trist: It's like, if all of these

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Trist: things are all related to my

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Trist: industry, then that's pretty

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Trist: great.

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Trist: Not having to have another quote

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Trist: unquote day job or working for

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Trist: someone else doing something

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Trist: that's not related to your

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Trist: interests.

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Elaine: It is interesting to think about

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Elaine: like, I have known people who

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Elaine: have done both where, some

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Elaine: people that we know in common

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Elaine: were working at a bank or as a

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Elaine: programmer, and it was

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Elaine: definitely their secondary

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Elaine: thing.

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Elaine: It was more

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: a contract work for them to do that secondary thing.

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Elaine: But I think there's also some

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Elaine: people who have two primary part

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Elaine: time things.

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Elaine: Like I was talking with a friend of mine a couple of years ago,

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Elaine: and he was someone who for a long time was doing, I'd say

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Elaine: like more seasonal work.

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Elaine: So this is more pit orchestra, music direction kind of stuff.

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Elaine: So that would be for a season,

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Elaine: for two months or whatnot of

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Elaine: rehearsals and then doing a

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Elaine: show.

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Elaine: and then he would also do private music lessons.

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Elaine: But when I talked to him most recently, he'd stopped all of

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Elaine: that because he had two primary part time consistent gigs.

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Elaine: So he had a church gig that was fifty percent.

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Elaine: And then he added a school gig that was fifty percent.

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Elaine: Both of them were doing music, so music directing.

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Elaine: And then the other one, he was supporting a music teacher, like

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Elaine: by playing piano and

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Trist: Mhm.

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Elaine: he was feeling pretty content with that level of balance that

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Elaine: he had in doing these two things that balanced really well with

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Elaine: his personal life.

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Elaine: I think he was getting his, um,

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Elaine: like medical care through one of

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Elaine: them.

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Elaine: And so it's one of those things

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Elaine: that I felt was a really

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Elaine: encouraging thing to think about

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Elaine: like how he was able to find

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Elaine: something that was long term and

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Elaine: consistent.

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Elaine: I think you and I both know of

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Elaine: people who aren't working

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Elaine: seasonal jobs.

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Elaine: They are working pretty

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Elaine: consistent jobs over and over

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Elaine: again.

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Elaine: And that's actually giving them

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Elaine: that level of stability that

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Elaine: they want and being in the arts

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Elaine: as well.

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Trist: Indeed, indeed.

Speaker:

Trist: Everyone just figures out what they have to do and then also

Speaker:

Trist: depends on their other what other what other things are

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Trist: happening with their family, what their other life needs are

Speaker:

Trist: and where their limit is and how they have to pace themselves.

Speaker:

Trist: Everyone has their own way about it.

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Elaine: I'd really like to flip this on this head, though.

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Elaine: And think about how professional groups handle the people who

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Elaine: have multiple gigs.

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Elaine: And so I know that you've been

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Elaine: in a couple of professional

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Elaine: groups where you just need

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Elaine: coverage because someone has

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Elaine: another gig that might be making

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Elaine: more money or it just has a

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Elaine: conflict.

Speaker:

Elaine: And so how do the professional groups that tour make sure that

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Elaine: they can have their people on site or have a person on site?

Speaker:

Elaine: Can you tell us a little bit more about that?

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Trist: Well, it really depends on what your deal is.

Speaker:

Trist: If you're a part of the

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Trist: ownership of a group, then your

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Trist: flexibility is going to be

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Trist: different.

Speaker:

Trist: Like you're a mandatory thing.

Speaker:

Trist: There are some bands and things

Speaker:

Trist: where there are front people and

Speaker:

Trist: then whoever's assisting in the

Speaker:

Trist: back in the band, maybe their

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Trist: face isn't necessarily important

Speaker:

Trist: to the gig, as weird as that is

Speaker:

Trist: to say.

Speaker:

Trist: You just need someone that's good at whatever, playing the

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Trist: piano, playing the bass.

Speaker:

Trist: If it's an act that no one is there to see that particular

Speaker:

Trist: bass player because the name on the bill doesn't include them.

Speaker:

Trist: So it doesn't really matter.

Speaker:

Trist: This actually goes back to last week's episode of Tommy Dorsey

Speaker:

Trist: having the Sentimentalists.

Speaker:

Trist: Theoretically, even though it

Speaker:

Trist: was always the Clark Sisters, if

Speaker:

Trist: he fired them, he could hire

Speaker:

Trist: other people and still just call

Speaker:

Trist: them the Sentimentalists,

Speaker:

Trist: because people didn't know who

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Trist: they were.

Speaker:

Trist: So easy to have subs then.

Speaker:

Trist: So thank you long time listeners.

Speaker:

Trist: If you listen to these two in a

Speaker:

Trist: row, you got a little bonus

Speaker:

Trist: coverage.

Speaker:

Trist: If you're a 1099, just part time worker for a group and there's

Speaker:

Trist: some conflicts, you have more choices like, well, hey, you

Speaker:

Trist: don't think of me as a full time, like I'm the essential

Speaker:

Trist: person slash owner in the group.

Speaker:

Trist: So here's these times where I have this other thing to do.

Speaker:

Trist: I guess you have to find somebody else.

Speaker:

Trist: Usually that's dealt with way

Speaker:

Trist: more professionally, and the

Speaker:

Trist: person that needs to be out will

Speaker:

Trist: help.

Speaker:

Trist: Even if on paper they're not really required to help.

Speaker:

Trist: Of course, you're usually family by that point and you're wanting

Speaker:

Trist: things to be good and copacetic with your band mates.

Speaker:

Trist: So every situation is different.

Speaker:

Trist: I know situations where it's

Speaker:

Trist: literally the person that has to

Speaker:

Trist: miss shows, hey, here's the

Speaker:

Trist: shows I'm missing and that's all

Speaker:

Trist: they do.

Speaker:

Trist: And then they don't go to the shows and somebody takes care of

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Trist: getting them covered.

Speaker:

Trist: And I know different groups where someone's like, hey, I

Speaker:

Trist: can't do this one, but I've auditioned a guy, I've got him

Speaker:

Trist: all ready to go.

Speaker:

Trist: I've got it figured out.

Speaker:

Trist: He's going to be perfect for you.

Speaker:

Trist: Here's your replacement.

Speaker:

Trist: And so every situation is unique.

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Elaine: I feel like there are a lot of groups that you and I both know

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Elaine: who just have a pool of subs.

Speaker:

Elaine: And you have your primary

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Elaine: person, but if your primary

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Elaine: person can't make it for some

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Elaine: reason, you have a pool of

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Elaine: people who you can call up for

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Elaine: that gig.

Speaker:

Elaine: And so it really is developing that bench and making sure that

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Elaine: you have people who can step in.

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Elaine: I think you're right, though, there is also the sense of where

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Elaine: are the gigs where everyone has to make it and where are the

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Elaine: gigs where, oh, someone else could step in for this part.

Speaker:

Elaine: I'm also thinking about the LHR

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Elaine: Project, which you're running as

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Elaine: well, which is really built as a

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Elaine: collective.

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Elaine: Can you tell us a little bit more about that?

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Trist: Sure. For those who don't know, I have a project that's a

Speaker:

Trist: tribute to Lambert, Hendricks and Ross, the jazz singing trio

Speaker:

Trist: from the 50s and 60s.

Speaker:

Trist: And while it was a one time only

Speaker:

Trist: gig at first, and the singers

Speaker:

Trist: that I got for that show are

Speaker:

Trist: busy and they're really good at

Speaker:

Trist: doing this gig, which is why I

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Trist: found them and wanted them to do

Speaker:

Trist: it.

Speaker:

Trist: So we had a great time, but

Speaker:

Trist: they're so busy that they can't

Speaker:

Trist: do it every time I get a gig

Speaker:

Trist: proposal.

Speaker:

Trist: So I realized I needed to

Speaker:

Trist: diversify, and I have a handful

Speaker:

Trist: of others that can also do the

Speaker:

Trist: job.

Speaker:

Trist: Again, unique in this instance,

Speaker:

Trist: because the makeup of this

Speaker:

Trist: particular singing group doesn't

Speaker:

Trist: require a lot of balance and

Speaker:

Trist: blending.

Speaker:

Trist: And like, it's not a group vocal.

Speaker:

Trist: Like you think of most vocal groups like the Four Freshmen or

Speaker:

Trist: the Manhattan Transfer or anything that requires hours of

Speaker:

Trist: matching your vowels and getting a good group sound.

Speaker:

Trist: It's like three horn players

Speaker:

Trist: that just show up at a gig and

Speaker:

Trist: play jazz.

Speaker:

Trist: So it's kind of like the vocal version of that.

Speaker:

Trist: So luckily, changing members doesn't really change the show

Speaker:

Trist: all that much.

Speaker:

Elaine: It's interesting to think about

Speaker:

Elaine: it from that perspective,

Speaker:

Elaine: especially as we're talking

Speaker:

Elaine: about the industry, we're

Speaker:

Elaine: talking about how you construct

Speaker:

Elaine: your business really, especially

Speaker:

Elaine: if you have multiple people

Speaker:

Elaine: involved.

Speaker:

Elaine: So any last thoughts about this before we close out?

Speaker:

Trist: No, it is true though.

Speaker:

Trist: Full time musician is rarely just one job.

Speaker:

Elaine: All right.

Speaker:

Elaine: So with that we're going to close out.

Speaker:

Elaine: Like we mentioned before, please

Speaker:

Elaine: do share an episode or the

Speaker:

Elaine: playlist.

Speaker:

Elaine: We would love to get more people listening to us.

Speaker:

Elaine: And we know that you know the

Speaker:

Elaine: right people to share these

Speaker:

Elaine: podcasts with.

Speaker:

Elaine: So with that, thank you for joining us this week and we'll

Speaker:

Elaine: see you next week.

Speaker:

Trist: Thank you.

Speaker:

Elaine: What is my reaction to this one?

Speaker:

Trist: I'm so sorry.

Speaker:

Trist: Say that one more time.

Speaker:

Elaine: Okay, so last thing I know that I said the last thing was the

Speaker:

Elaine: last thing, but, um, I'm like, oh no. Okay.

Speaker:

Elaine: For some reason I thought that was supposed to come at the end.

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The Musician's Loupe
Listen to music like a musician
A discussion about music and musicianship by Trist Curless (jazz singer, educator, sound engineer, and recording engineer, formerly of m-pact and The Manhattan Transfer) and Elaine Chao, M.Ed (multi-instrumentalist, vocalist, beatboxer, singer-songwriter, author, and former educator). Each week, we listen to a song together and discuss the music we love through the lens of decades in the music industry. Topics include analysis of songwriting, chord progression, instrumentation, recording technology, and arrangement.